However, after several tests and hospital visits, I was informed by my rheumatologist that I had lupus. I eventually came to accept that I had the disease. I’ve had depression, blood clots, heart and neurological issues. Flares usually include hair loss, so now I keep my head bald. I continue to work full-time, but there are periods where I am forced to take time off due to a severe flare. I go to support groups to deal with my illness and get educated.